How To Support A Love One Struggling With Addiction

By D'angelo G. Deighan


For someone close to you who is negatively affected by a dependency, it is important to determine the best ways of offering your help. Watching the destruction involved in alcoholism or a drug abuse can wreak havoc in and around the home often leading to highly emotional and angry reactions. How to support a love one struggling with addiction requires an educational approach to wellness.

Families and friends who witness the destruction of someone with a dependence on alcohol or drugs are often at there wits end as to how to help. It can prove draining and overwhelming to have to face these debilitating patterns of behavior on a regular basis. It may seem easy to walk away from the stress, but adopting the correct approach allows one to handle the situation.

If you are concerned about an addiction, do not wait to act or it may be too late to help out. Individuals who are overcome by a substance dependence display problems at work and constant disruptions in personal spheres. There is no one fit all approach to help someone suffering from addictive tendencies, but there are steps that supportive individuals can take to steer someone in the right direction.

The first step is to learn as much about the diseases alcoholism and drug dependency depending on which substance disorder an individual is affected by. This will provide a clear understanding of the symptoms experienced by the individual and the stages of abuse that can occur. Resources are available online and in consultation with recovery facilities.

Once you are ready to speak to the individual ensure that it is in a relaxed and non-judgmental setting. Do not force someone to listen or burden them with your opinions, but offer support and express how concerned you may be. Do not wait until the person has reached their lowest point, but advise on ways of tackling the problem before it leads to complete loss.

There is the option of offering to tend to recovery meetings along with the abuser. This indicates the unconditional approach you are willing to provide and the pressure experienced by a dependent. Do not start a conversation with threats or a forceful attitude as it will simply cause disinterest and a loss of trust.

For those debilitated by addictive behavior, it becomes imperative for loved ones to take the appropriate action. Be firm and stand up for what you are communicating without being forceful. Providing strong support and structure may assist in transforming the attitude of someone with a dependency.




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